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Do not gnaw alone

 
Difficulty, sadness, loss ... not from anyone. But if we have strong and correct spiritual insights to comfort and help, just what we should do then we will have the strength to stand up.
 
Although not related, not familiar but every time someone hears because of suicide, I feel pain and thought.
 
As the story of a young engineer young engineer has just graduated a few years now near a friend's house.
 
first.
 
My friend told me, I sent back a letter of ten pages long paper for the family. You say you can not live anymore. The person you love the most is not, the most trusting person is disappointed. Medicine can no longer help you. I do not blame anyone, just apologize to everyone. I told family not to do funeral for me nor tell anyone, only bring you home is enough. The family said that they learned very well but depression for many years ...
 
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Listen to the story that I am extremely sorry.
 
In this life there is such a sad and lonely person that no longer want to contact anyone, do not want anyone to remember, even when leaving.
 
I think she had a long time living in sadness and despair. Nothing is strong enough to anchor you back. I think you are very gentle so do not blame anyone, can only do one thing is hurt yourself.
 
2.
 
Many of us are also weak people in different angles. So people often need a place to rely. Otherwise, who is that helper?
 
I see, many people choose one or a few specific people as spiritual support: family or friends, lover ... Not wrong. But I think not enough.
 
This world is always changing - understand this and try to see that is common sense - whether you like it or not. Change - not always the fault of someone, sometimes just because of the coast, the emotions only. Even immortal sentiments like family go away in one way or another.
 
If all the faith, happiness and suffering, we entrust ourselves to depend on some specific people, how can we live happily, if it changes and disappears?
 
3.
 
Then who, what is the most secure anchor?
 
"It's a person or something that makes me feel understood, comforted, respected, told me the right things, supported you without having to be present with your flesh beside me. come with me - who is it, what is it? "
 
I got that answer many years ago from a big friend. After a long time, I understood what that was. Since then I have a strong fulcrum, beside the close relatives of the old.
 
Not selfish to want to keep separate so not say. It is only this that must be permeated by everyone, not just some words spoken by someone.
 
I do not dare to say that I have become strong. But I see myself stronger than the old days. The bases - there is a back seat that never loses (unless I give up) always by my side, solving my problems, sharing difficulties with me and show me a direction.
 
Difficulty, sadness, loss ... not from anyone. But if we have strong and correct spiritual insights to comfort and help, just what we should do then we will have the strength to stand up. And then everything will gradually pass.
 
I want to message to some people living in sadness - do not gnaw alone. Share your concerns and give your attention to many others.
 
No one can live happily without good links with the people around - links, not dependencies or expectations.
 
And "many people around", not just a few narrow objects that I think is "his".
 
Ever feel so tired life so hard, try to spend time looking for peaceful places to lighter heart.
 
Take a rest and move on!


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